Unprotected Cognition and the Collapse of Psychological Buffers
The typical modern person is not trained to handle ontology. They are trained to handle tasks. They are trained to handle signals, responsibilities, deadlines, performance. Their identity is built as a contract with the environment: I will be this kind of person, and the world will reward me with predictability. The break happens when the environment breaks the contract. Then the person experiences not just loss, but humiliation at the level of metaphysics: “If this is not stable, what else have I been assuming is stable.”.
Identity as a Channel
The psyche does something economical. It converts a sequence of constrained choices into a story about a particular kind of person, and then reinterprets sacrifice as destiny.
HOW CHOICES IN ONE DOMAIN MIRROR CHOICES IN ALL OTHERS
Consciousness is: a fluid capable of moving down many branches. Identity becomes: a narrow, selective channel the fluid is forced into, then glorified after the fact. Individuals do not simply pick paths and then describe themselves. They create a character who would obviously choose those paths, then retroactively announce: “This is who I am.”
Anxiety, Instability, and the Architecture of Dishonesty
For the anxious individual, truth ceases to function as an external anchor and becomes an internal variable; what matters is not whether it is true, but whether it is emotionally survivable.
The Ecology of Toxic Personalities in the Workplace
Toxic workplace behaviour is an emergent property of psychological structures interacting with organizational systems, because internal instability is externalized into process, hierarchy, and scapegoats.
Somatic and Cerebral Narcissistic Styles in Dyadic Relational Systems
A structural and behavioral analysis of how these two architectures lock into a self sustaining system, which often ends in asymmetry, erosion, and the faster exit of those who still possess a stable frame.
The Emergence of the Unseen Self
The claim that someone became “not themselves” inside intimacy is often the language of dissociation; the bond did not create a foreign entity, it revealed a preexisting structure that had never been brought into full awareness.
Toronto
After I moved here from Montreal.
Bow Valley 25'
Few snippets of my visit to Canmore this year.
Decisions as Rubber Bands
A decision made under external pressure creates a time delayed psychological haunting, because the decision did not emerge from authentic desire; it emerged from avoidance of conflict and submission to group cognition.
How Honesty Forces the Unconscious to the Surface
When truth is spoken, some faces tighten and bodies defend before words can be understood, because the nervous system reacts faster than intellect; honesty becomes a reliable diagnostic of how much shadow material is being held back.
Thai-Land'
Image blog of my visit to Thai-Land'.
Mexico 25'
Image blog of my visit to Mexico, 25'.
Friends TV Show: How a Sitcom Became a Social Template
Some people talk about moving to New York while rewatching Friends, not because they want the city, but because they want to cosplay the template; what they crave is the rhythm of jokes that always land and the group dynamic that never fractures.
Are You Traveling Or Just Performing
Changing scenery without changing mind is displacement, because places are used to regulate affect, status, and narrative; choosing Japan or Mexico or Iceland is, psychologically, a choice of script.
The Unstable Self Lies Because It Has No Other Choice
Lying is often framed as moral failure, but in many cases the issue is the absence of a stable individual; the lie becomes the scaffolding that keeps a fragmented self from collapsing.
The Variable Self and the Fixed Frame
Psychology as institution turns variables into constants that suit committees who define what a constant should be; the work can relieve pain, but it can also erase the strangeness that makes a life worth saving.
Art as Unfinished Emotion
The deeper the abstraction, the deeper the unresolved emotions it encodes, because abstraction is not distance from feeling; when feelings become too complex to name, the mind builds symbols instead of sentences.